How we Storydwelling…

  • Respect: we treat one another always in I-thou relationships, or subject-subject relationships, never objectifying
  • Listening to stories: our own, one another’s, and ancient ones
  • Breath and contemplation
  • Beauty!
  • Permission to stop, slow and rest
  • We practice grace, repentance and repair
  • Play and joy
  • Discernment: we engage our spiritual lives to know what are our yeses and what are our no’s
  • We are all leaders, responsible for the health of this ecosystem
  • We practice consistency in gathering, over time, to build trust
  • When we take public action, it is because it is deeply felt and arises out of the personal hopes and pressures of at least three leaders
  • Lament and grief
  • Singing and music together
  • Spaciousness
  • Honesty
  • Curiosity
  • Celebration!
  • Willingness to be known and seen
  • Vulnerability and open-heartedness
  • We practice community discussion and conversation; we are not consumers of this experience!
  • Laughter
  • Flexibility and adaptiveness
  • Decentralizing any one person or any one gathering, including Sundays
  • Deconstructing theologies, especially harmful ones
  • Inviting feedback and reflection, always
  • When we communicate, we do so generously and preferably in-person